Steven Edward Cross

1967 - 2004
LocationStainforth/doncaster
Age36 years
Cause of DeathSuicide
Date of Birth11/06/1967
Date of Death14/02/2004
Visitors1,569 since 26/08/2008
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SON OF ANNE AND EDDIE
STEPSON TO GERALD
FATHER OF RYAN,FATHER IN LAW TO CHARLOTTE
FATHER TO RICHARD
AND NOW A GRANDFATHER TO AMELIA ANNE
BROTHER OF JULIE,ANDREW AND ANDREA
BROTHER IN LAW TO MICK,TERRI AND MARK
UNCLE TO AMANDA,ADAM,SHANNON,SHONA,JACK AND CHARLIE
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STEVEN WAS MY BIG BROTHER, HE WAS A LOVABLE ROGUE AND HAD A HEART OF GOLD. HE WAS'NT A MAN TO TAKE
ANY 'NONSENSE' FROM ANYONE AND MADE IT CLEAR.
HE WAS A MECHANICAL ENGINEER AT 'CORUS' IN SCUNTHORPE AND A NIGHTCLUB DOORMAN IN SCUNTHORPE.
HIS BIG PASSION WAS FISHING AND DARE I SAY IT 'SAILING', HE BOUGHT A BOAT WHICH INEVITABLY SANK ( OH
THE LAUGHS WE HAD OVER THIS )
HE ALSO HAD A PASSION FOR DIVING.
BUT HIS BIGGEST ' CRUSH ' WAS ON CHER....HE LOVED HER ....REALLY ! :-)

IF YOU WERE HIS FRIEND, YOU WERE HIS FRIEND FOR LIFE !

HE LEFT US ON VALENTINES DAY 2004, HE TOOK HIS OWN LIFE AND LEFT A DEVASTED FAMILY.
HE WAS 'MARRIED ' TO A WOMAN WHO CHEATED AND LIED ALL THEIR MARRIED LIFE. THE FINAL 'AFFAIR' ( ONE
OF MANY) WAS TO AN IRAQI IMMIGRANT, STEVEN COULD NOT STAND THE PAIN ANY LONGER....
( ALTHOUGH I WILL ALWAYS BELIEVE IT WAS A CRY FOR HELP AND AN ACCIDENT)

STEVEN IS MISSED SO VERY MUCH XXX AND ALWAYS WILL BE XXXX


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Linda And Steve Davies September 2, 2008

please look after him lord as he was not just anyone,,,,he was my son xxxxandrea goodall kevs mum xxxx

Andrea Goodall September 1, 2008

my heart goes out to you love sheila mum to Ian Foster

Reflection

Another day for you to wonder, another day for you to mourn
It wasn't my intention to go before the coming dawn
My pain was deep within my heart and troubled head
It wasn't my intention to go without words said.

My frame of mind seemed normal, or so I heard them say
It wasn't my intention not to see another day
I did not mean to make you suffer or cause you so much pain
It wasn't my intention to never see you again.

Despair and confusion left my aching mind unsure
It wasn't my intention to suddenly close life's door
If only I could give you reasons and brush the tears away
It wasn't my intention to leave you and not stay.

I did not mean for you to grieve, now left alone to cry
It wasn't my intention to leave you, forever asking why
As the burdens of life's worries slowly ebb from my heart
it wasn't my intention to tear your soul apart
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sorry

im so sorry, they say we live here and this is hell,n when we do leave we go to start a new life in heaven, i would love to believe this,my heart goes out to you julie n family,i thought my heart was shatered into millions of pieces but it cant be or i wouldnt be still crying n hurting so much.im sorry xxxxx

Andrea Goodall August 29, 2008

We had just started to get to know eachother as i didnt know you as i was growing up,when you left this earth.I wish i had got to know you earlier as i bet you would have been a great big brother.Hope you having fun where you are Steven,lots of love Andrea Xxx

Andrea Waugh (Sister) August 29, 2008

Losing you was losing a part of me,but i was oh so proud to be your mum.You will never be forgotten, by so many, but now you can rest in peace, and find the happiness you couldn't seem to find on earth. Love you for ever son,xxxx till we meet again.
your loving mam

Anne Rowley (Mother) August 27, 2008

SO, SO SORRY............

DANIEL SWADDLES MAM.



Softly the leaves of memory fall,

Gently I gather and treasure them all,

Unseen, unheard, you are always near,

Still loved, still missed, so very dear.

No length of time can take away,

My thoughts of you from day to day,

Whatever else I fail to do,

I never fail to think of you.


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MISS YOU MORE THAN YOU WILL EVER KNOW,STEVEN.

LOTS OF LOVE, JUDE.X

Jude Swaddle August 26, 2008

thinking of you and albert always

'CROSSY' missed by my family always, a good friend who was always there when we needed him and is terribly missed when albert left this earth you always came to make sure me and the kids were ok ,i wish i had know how bad you felt , i know albert will be taking care of you now you deserved better than this life gave you miss you always colleen, kieron ,louise and ryanxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Colleen Marriott (Friend) August 26, 2008

I'LL NEVER FORGET

Loving memories we will never forget,
Sadly missed along life's way,
With silent thought and deep regret,
I think of you every day,
No longer in my life to share,
But in my heart he's always there.

Gone are the days we used to share,
But in my hearts you're always there,
The gates of memory will never close,
I miss you more than anyone knows,
With tender love and deep regret,
We who love you will never forget.

God knows how much I miss you,
Never shall your memory fade,
Loving thoughts shall ever wander,
To the spot where you are laid.
Though absent you are ever near,
Still missed and loved, always dear.

It's hard to believe
You are no longer here,
I think of you,
You feel so near,
In some small way, every single day,
Memories of you come our way.

Years fly by like autumn leaves,
But heartache and tears remain,
All I have left is precious memories
Of you, for today, for tomorrow,
And until my life is through.

A page in the book of memory,
Silently turns today.
I remember you in silence,
And make no outward show.
And what it meant to lose you,
No one will ever know.

This day is remembered and quietly kept,
No words are needed, we shall never forget,
For those we love don't go away,
You walk beside me every day.
Unseen and unheard, but always near,
So loved, so missed, and so very dear.

Sad was the parting, no one can tell,
So sudden on earth the sorrow fell;
The blow was hard, the shock severe,
To part with one I loved so dear
Dearer still as years depart
His memory lives within my heart.

Gone is the face I loved so dear
Silent is the face I loved to hear.
Too far away for sight or speech,
But not too far for thought to reach,
Sweet to remember him once here,
Who, though absent, is just as dear.

Years have grown day by day,
It’s now 4 years since he went away,
Thoughts are full and hearts do weigh,
Without you here to share the way,
Time may dull the hand of fate,
Memory forever recalls the date.

Julie (Sister) August 25, 2008
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